Monday, May 3, 2010
A Better Tomorrow's Intervention Service
Intervention is a technique that was originated by Vernon Johnson of the Johnson Institute in Minnesota. Mr. Johnson’s original idea was to create a “controlled crisis” for the Alcoholic who was reluctant to enter into treatment. This type of Intervention was then modified to address all crisis situations. Intervention, when conducted by a trained professional, is 96% successful in convincing a reluctant person to enter into treatment.
For many years the common thinking was that a substance abuser or chemically dependent person be it alcohol, illegal street drugs or prescription medications had to reach bottom and call out for help before anything could be done for them. Nothing could be further from the truth. In a way, an intervention is simply the raising of that bottom so that the chemically dependent don’t spiral further toward self-destruction. You might compare it to a loved one standing in the middle of the road with a truck heading right for them. Would you stand idly by and watch them being run down? Of course not! You would scream and holler at them to get out of the way. You might even dash onto the highway yourself, and push them to safety. That is the essence of an intervention.
Intervention breaks through the person’s denial by approaching several of his/her defense mechanisms all at once. Removing or short-circuiting the person’s defense mechanisms allows the family to present the truth about his/her problem in a calm, rational and loving manner.
A well-conducted intervention is objective, unequivocal, nonjudgmental and caring in the presentation of specific facts. It is empathy not to be confused with sympathy. You may express your understanding of the problem, but you most certainly don’t sympathize with the problem. The problem is the PROBLEM. The person IS NOT the problem.
Why now? The longer the delay, the longer the person will suffer and the more life threatening the disease will become. That said, it is unwise to charge into an intervention without careful preparation and the guidance of a professional interventionist.
Why you? Just the fact that you have researched the idea shows that you care. After all, isn’t it reasonable to expect loved ones and friends to care about someone who is sick?
A successful intervention has nothing to do with controlling the behavior of a person with this kind of problem. Instead, it provides you with positive steps to take. These steps help you to do all that you can do to offer a serious and effective gift of help to someone you care about.
It can be successful for you as well, because there’s one thing that we’re sure about; although each person is unique, the process of addiction is not. Furthermore, the process of recovery is a simple one, provided the patient follows a professional’s recommendation.
It should also be noted that several problems arise when a family attempts to conduct an intervention on their own. Since the family has not been trained in the proper format or even the appropriate language of an intervention, the process often breaks down into an argument and confrontation leading to a total breakdown and failure. We have witnessed it time and again, the distraught and disappointment left over when a family unsuccessfully attempts an intervention by themselves.
Normal thinking does not have any effect on the Problem. You cant argue logic with someone who is simply illogical. The Problem is a disease with four progressive stages. Once someone has reached the fourth stage, they no longer have the ability to control the Problem is controlling them. Actually, the Problem feeds off normal thinking and reactions by enticing the patient into a pattern of denial.
The Fear Factor
President Franklin D. Roosevelt once said, The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself. Never were such words truer than a family faced with the prospect of an intervention. In fact, the problem/addiction counts on fear as one of its strongest allies. It uses fear to maintain the inactivity of the family unit to confront the problem/addiction. This fear is often quantified by the family members looking at all the possible negative consequences of a proposed intervention. The rational of the problem/addiction is as follows: If I can instill just enough fear in the family, then maybe they will just leave things the way they are. That way, I can continue destroying the patient. In this manner, the problem/addiction has become a parasite with the patient as its host. Again, we cannot directly control the ultimate actions of the patient. However, by conducting the intervention, we have the knowledge that we did all that we could and that we are not going to stop our own healing process from the problem. However, these are all tolls that we may be paying for a bridge we never come to.
Denial
Almost without exception, the more deeply seeded the problem becomes within the client, the less likely the client is able to realize that there is any problem at all. This is denial. The problem/addiction also uses this tool to remain active and viable within the patient. In this way, the problem/addiction can mask its insidious spiral of death and destruction. It makes the patient feel that everything is really OK. This is where the rationalization we were talking about comes into play. Through the use of denial, the problem/addiction makes the patient think that they are really just like everybody else. The denial essentially removes the patient from reality. It is probably the strongest and most finely honed defense mechanism within the arsenal of the problem/addiction.
If you need help, are struggling with an addiction, or know of someone who is, please contact A Better Tomorrow Treatment Center today. We are here to help.
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I watched several of the episodes of Intervention on TV. It was always a very moving process to observe. I never thought I'd be dealing with it myself. My 17 year old son is in crisis as I write. We've begged, pleaded, and threatened with no results. We're ready to ask for professional intervention. Thank you so much for outlining the steps for us.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this information. I never knew there was such a program. I've been fighting the battle with my daughter and I'm losing fast. If someone else can reach her, I'm all for giving it a try. She's all I have left in the world and I couldn't bear it if something happened to her that could have been prevented.
ReplyDeleteI used to think intervention was a drastic measure and an intrusion of sorts. That was before it happened in my own family, to one of my children. It's a devastating thing to watch your own child deteriorate before your eyes. I have tried everything I could think of and several things that were suggested to me. I'm ready for a professional to step in and give it their best shot. I'm afrait a funeral is in our future if something isn't done soon.
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