Showing posts with label A Better Tomorrow's Intervention Service. Show all posts
Showing posts with label A Better Tomorrow's Intervention Service. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Addiction Recovery - More Than Just Not Using

Addiction recovery is about way more than just not using your substance of choice. It is about healing your addictive thinking, addictive behaviors, and dealing with life in a different way – a more positive and direct manner.

Once the concept of what addiction recovery is grasped is when the real journey of recovery begins. It will always be a work in progress with its highs and lows.

Addiction recovery is not just the cessation of addiction behaviors and abuse. It is about human development, growing, learning what was stunted in ones life while in an addictive downhill spiral. It is about learning how to deal with life’s ups and downs without abusive or addictive crutches. It is about being able to be proud of how far you have come and how much more yet you can grow.

If you need help, are struggling with an addiction, or know of someone who is, please contact A Better Tomorrow Treatment Center today. We are here to help.
http://www.abttc.net/
Phone: 800.971.1586
Fax: 800.401.8464
24 Hour Addiction HelpLine
Tel. (800) 396-9389 (7 days 24 hours)
e-mail: info@24houraddictionhelp.com
http://www.24houraddictionhelp.org/

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Friday, June 11, 2010

Time for a Change?

Are you tired of being a slave to a drug? Are you tired of suffering? Are you tired of hurting yourself and the ones you love? Do you want to get rid of your addiction? If you are suffering from an addiction, rehabilitation is the best solution. By attending a rehabilitation treatment, you will rid yourself of your addiction and receive the tools needed to help you stay on a clean road. You will receive the consoling needed to help you discover your triggers and the underlying reasons for your addiction.

A Better Tomorrow Treatment Center is able to help you achieving your permanent recovery through their drug and alcohol rehab. There is aftercare support that enables you to receive lifetime support. This aftercare support will be very useful for patients as they usually have difficulties to face the world without using drug or alcohol.

A Better Tomorrow Treatment Center
offers personalized treatment not a one treatment fits all base. This personalized treatment enables every patient to get the most out of their treatment. If you or a loved one is fighting an addiction and are ready to start a better tomorrow, let A Better Tomorrow Treatment Center help you make the change in your life for the better.

If you need help, are struggling with an addiction, or know of someone who is, please contact A Better Tomorrow Treatment Center today. We are here to help.
http://www.abttc.net/
Phone: 800.971.1586
Fax: 800.401.8464
24 Hour Addiction HelpLine
Tel. (800) 396-9389 (7 days 24 hours)
e-mail: info@24houraddictionhelp.com
http://www.24houraddictionhelp.org/

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Thursday, June 10, 2010

Self-Harm

Self-harm or deliberate self-harm was previously referred to as self-mutilation. The act includes intentional self-injury or self-poisoning without suicide intent.
The most common form of self-harm is skin cutting but can also include burning, scratching, banging or hitting body parts, interfering with wound healing, hair pulling (Trichotillomania), ingestion of toxic substances or objects, and a wide variety of other self injurious activity. Behaviors associated with substance abuse and eating disorders are usually not considered self-harm because the lack of visible tissue damage however, a broader definition of self harm may also include individuals who inflict harm on their bodies by means of disordered eating.

Suicide is not the intention of self-harm however the self-harming behavior may be potentially life threatening. However, suicide is a risk with 40 to 60% of suicides having some form of previous self-harm behaviors.

Self-harm is considered a symptom of borderline personality disorder. However, patients with other diagnoses may also self-harm, including those with depression, anxiety disorders, substance abuse, eating disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder, schizophrenia, and several personality disorders. Self-harm is also apparent in high-functioning individuals who have no underlying clinical diagnosis.

Self harmers' do so to fulfill a number of different functions – as a coping mechanism for temporary relief of intense feelings such as anxiety, depression, stress, emotional numbness and a sense of failure or self-loathing. Self-harm has been associated with a history of trauma and abuse including emotional abuse, sexual abuse, drug dependence, eating disorders, or mental traits such as low self-esteem or perfectionism.

Self-harm is most common in adolescence and young adulthood, usually first appearing between the ages of 14 and 24. However, self-harm can occur at any age, including in the elderly population. Drug and alcohol abuse, dependency, and withdrawal is also associated with self-harm.

Self-harm is treated through various methods, both psychosocial and physical treatments.

Medication: Many people who self-harm suffer from moderate or severe clinical depression and therefore treatment with antidepressant drugs may often be effective in treating these patients.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: Used to assist those with diagnoses, such as depression, schizophrenia, and bipolar disorder.

Dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT): Can be very successful for those individuals exhibiting a personality disorder, and could potentially be used for those with other mental illnesses who exhibit self-harming behavior.

Other approaches involve avoidance techniques, which focus on keeping the individual occupied with other activities, or replacing the act of self-harm with safer methods that do not lead to permanent damage.


If you need help, are struggling with an addiction, or know of someone who is, please contact A Better Tomorrow Treatment Center today. We are here to help.
http://www.abttc.net/
Phone: 800.971.1586
Fax: 800.401.8464
24 Hour Addiction HelpLine
Tel. (800) 396-9389 (7 days 24 hours)
e-mail: info@24houraddictionhelp.com
http://www.24houraddictionhelp.org/

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Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Desiderta

In closing about self-esteem, I would like to take this opportunity to share the poem that a reader had commented about. I felt it just as fitting as the commenter did. Desiderata (Latin for "desired things") is a prose poem by Max Ehrmann about attaining happiness in life. Please enjoy.

Desiderta

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant, they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is perennial as the grass.

Take kindly to the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.


Max Ehrmann c.1920


If you need help, are struggling with an addiction, or know of someone who is, please contact A Better Tomorrow Treatment Center today. We are here to help.
http://www.abttc.net/
Phone: 800.971.1586
Fax: 800.401.8464
24 Hour Addiction HelpLine
Tel. (800) 396-9389 (7 days 24 hours)
e-mail: info@24houraddictionhelp.com
http://www.24houraddictionhelp.org/

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Monday, May 3, 2010

A Better Tomorrow's Intervention Service



Intervention is a technique that was originated by Vernon Johnson of the Johnson Institute in Minnesota. Mr. Johnson’s original idea was to create a “controlled crisis” for the Alcoholic who was reluctant to enter into treatment. This type of Intervention was then modified to address all crisis situations. Intervention, when conducted by a trained professional, is 96% successful in convincing a reluctant person to enter into treatment.

For many years the common thinking was that a substance abuser or chemically dependent person be it alcohol, illegal street drugs or prescription medications had to reach bottom and call out for help before anything could be done for them. Nothing could be further from the truth. In a way, an intervention is simply the raising of that bottom so that the chemically dependent don’t spiral further toward self-destruction. You might compare it to a loved one standing in the middle of the road with a truck heading right for them. Would you stand idly by and watch them being run down? Of course not! You would scream and holler at them to get out of the way. You might even dash onto the highway yourself, and push them to safety. That is the essence of an intervention.

Intervention breaks through the person’s denial by approaching several of his/her defense mechanisms all at once. Removing or short-circuiting the person’s defense mechanisms allows the family to present the truth about his/her problem in a calm, rational and loving manner.

A well-conducted intervention is objective, unequivocal, nonjudgmental and caring in the presentation of specific facts. It is empathy not to be confused with sympathy. You may express your understanding of the problem, but you most certainly don’t sympathize with the problem. The problem is the PROBLEM. The person IS NOT the problem.

Why now? The longer the delay, the longer the person will suffer and the more life threatening the disease will become. That said, it is unwise to charge into an intervention without careful preparation and the guidance of a professional interventionist.

Why you? Just the fact that you have researched the idea shows that you care. After all, isn’t it reasonable to expect loved ones and friends to care about someone who is sick?

A successful intervention has nothing to do with controlling the behavior of a person with this kind of problem. Instead, it provides you with positive steps to take. These steps help you to do all that you can do to offer a serious and effective gift of help to someone you care about.

It can be successful for you as well, because there’s one thing that we’re sure about; although each person is unique, the process of addiction is not. Furthermore, the process of recovery is a simple one, provided the patient follows a professional’s recommendation.

It should also be noted that several problems arise when a family attempts to conduct an intervention on their own. Since the family has not been trained in the proper format or even the appropriate language of an intervention, the process often breaks down into an argument and confrontation leading to a total breakdown and failure. We have witnessed it time and again, the distraught and disappointment left over when a family unsuccessfully attempts an intervention by themselves.

Normal thinking does not have any effect on the Problem. You cant argue logic with someone who is simply illogical. The Problem is a disease with four progressive stages. Once someone has reached the fourth stage, they no longer have the ability to control the Problem is controlling them. Actually, the Problem feeds off normal thinking and reactions by enticing the patient into a pattern of denial.

The Fear Factor

President Franklin D. Roosevelt once said, The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself. Never were such words truer than a family faced with the prospect of an intervention. In fact, the problem/addiction counts on fear as one of its strongest allies. It uses fear to maintain the inactivity of the family unit to confront the problem/addiction. This fear is often quantified by the family members looking at all the possible negative consequences of a proposed intervention. The rational of the problem/addiction is as follows: If I can instill just enough fear in the family, then maybe they will just leave things the way they are. That way, I can continue destroying the patient. In this manner, the problem/addiction has become a parasite with the patient as its host. Again, we cannot directly control the ultimate actions of the patient. However, by conducting the intervention, we have the knowledge that we did all that we could and that we are not going to stop our own healing process from the problem. However, these are all tolls that we may be paying for a bridge we never come to.

Denial

Almost without exception, the more deeply seeded the problem becomes within the client, the less likely the client is able to realize that there is any problem at all. This is denial. The problem/addiction also uses this tool to remain active and viable within the patient. In this way, the problem/addiction can mask its insidious spiral of death and destruction. It makes the patient feel that everything is really OK. This is where the rationalization we were talking about comes into play. Through the use of denial, the problem/addiction makes the patient think that they are really just like everybody else. The denial essentially removes the patient from reality. It is probably the strongest and most finely honed defense mechanism within the arsenal of the problem/addiction.



If you need help, are struggling with an addiction, or know of someone who is, please contact A Better Tomorrow Treatment Center today. We are here to help.
http://www.abttc.net/
Phone: 800.971.1586
Fax: 800.401.8464
24 Hour Addiction HelpLine
Tel. (800) 396-9389 (7 days 24 hours)
e-mail: info@24houraddictionhelp.com
http://www.24houraddictionhelp.org/

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